Volcanoes are erupting in The Philippines, but on-fire Australia received some welcome rain. The Iran war cries have been called off and The Donald’s military powers are about to be hamstrung by the Senate. Meanwhile, his impeachment trial is starting, and we’re all on Twitter for a front-row seat.
How to depolarize
On Monday, the day that former president Donald Trump was indicted in Georgia for efforts to overturn the results of the 2020 election, I got into an argument with a close friend who is considering voting for him again.
This friend is patriotic, a true lover of the United States. I told him I didn’t understand why he would vote for someone who so clearly doesn’t have the US’ best interests at heart. He told me that his vote is none of my business. Emotions rose. Eventually, he said, “It’s not right that you wouldn’t be friends with me anymore if I vote for Trump.”
I was taken aback. “I never said that,” I responded. “Of course we would still be friends.”
So much has been written about polarization in the US that writing about it again feels passé. I’m uncertain how much the US has passed through the trend of cutting off people we disagree with. But since the 2024 election looks, at least for now, like it will be a Trump-Biden rematch, it also feels necessary to continue to talk about depolarization.
The Progress Network (TPN) Member David Brooks recently wrote a piece in The Atlantic asking why Americans are so much meaner to each other nowadays. I’m not sure I agree with that premise, but I don’t think it’s controversial to say that American political dysfunction has bled into our private lives in ways that are damaging to social health. Americans increasingly view people affiliated with the opposing party as dumb and immoral. Partisan identification now supersedes that of race, religion, or ethnicity.
One thing I find oddly encouraging when it comes to polarization is that fixing it includes a lot of normal activities that humans generally like to do and that ordinary people can easily participate in. There’s not much most of us can do about Trump’s legal woes, unless we happen to be Jack Smith or Fani T. Willis. But there is a lot we can do to depolarize.
Like hanging out with “Democracks,” as a friend of a friend refers to me. Or Republicans or libertarians or progressives. Or simply having some conversations with people you might not normally speak with, without the goal of trying to change their mind on a topic. If you’re not sure how to go about doing either of those things, the depolarization organization Braver Angels is a great go-to.
More specifically, Substacker John Halpin, the writer at the helm of The Liberal Patriot, had four suggestions in his recent piece on how to recreate space for the “live and let live” ethos he sees at the heart of the American project. I see them as essential depolarization guidelines:
- Embrace more nonpolitical aspects to life.
- Keep politics out of most relationships and institutions.
- Resist social pressures to conform to narrow partisan beliefs and negative opinions of others with different views.
- Try harder to understand the positions of those with different backgrounds and opinions.
Numbers one and two should come as a relief. Go to yoga class, join a bowling league, become a LARPer, bring your kid to Gymboree. Do whatever you’d like. Just keep it nonpolitical! Voila: you’re already helping make America depolarized again.
If you’re an actively political person, this doesn’t mean that you have to change anything about your efforts, whether those are campaigning for a cause, signing people up to vote, or community organizing. It’s simply creating some space where those efforts are not the primary relationship glue.
Number three is trickier. I personally manage it by staying silent when people in my social circle disparage others for political views or by bringing up a nugget of information that challenges what is being shared. I also try not to assume that knowing X about a person means that they also think Y. People are complicated creatures, and the motivations each side tends to place upon the other are often wrong, or at the very least, simplified.
Number four has been particularly useful to me when it comes to navigating relationships in which you do talk about political issues. In a 2017 Stanford study, researchers found that one reason, as I wrote above, that partisan identification supersedes that of race, religion, or ethnicity is because it’s viewed as voluntary. Therefore, “it is a much more informative measure of attitudes and beliefs structures than, for example, knowing what skin color someone has,” says the study. In other words, I never chose to be Greek-American. I did choose to register as a “Democrack.” Others thus hold me responsible for that decision, as I hold them responsible for theirs.
But I do wonder how much control we really exercise over our political opinions and social stances, since what shapes them is often the product of environment—our neighborhoods and communities, our families and friends and coworkers, our cultural heritage, our educations, our social media algorithms. Random events, even, that happened to happen to us.
With my maybe-voting-for-Trump-again friend, for example, many of our viewpoint disagreements come from vastly different life experiences. He’s blue collar; I’m white collar. He’s a veteran; I’m not. He grew up very poor; I didn’t. Is it such a surprise that we don’t see eye to eye? And if one of our viewpoints shifts, is it because that person suddenly became a more responsible moral agent, or because their environment shifted?
Thinking in this way, we can still disagree with people’s decisions and positions, of course. We can still try to persuade them to change their minds. But it helps take apart the unconscious mental equation of “decision I think is bad” = “person I think is bad.”
With the presidential election looming, I believe turning toward each other is more important now than ever. Whether it’s Trump or Biden in 2024, and whatever comes next, we Americans will all still have to live with one another.
I’m curious to hear from our readers about this. Do you have any cross-partisan relationships? Is depolarization important to you? Any thoughts are welcome. Comment below or write to firstname.lastname@example.org.
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Below in the links section, clean energy is speeding ahead, AI is building new antibodies, Gen Zers are running for office, and more.
Other good stuff in the news ☀️
Energy & Environment:
- EU blindsided by ‘spectacular’ solar rollout | Politico
- The clean energy future is arriving faster than you think | The New York Times
- India succeeds in reducing emissions rate by 33% | Reuters
- A solar panel recycling industry is taking shape | AP
- GM says all of its EVs will be able to power your home by 2026 | The Verge
- How China is using nuclear power to reduce its carbon emissions | Carbon Brief
- Spread of Facebook use is not linked to psychological harm, new global study finds | Euronews
- Are we on the cusp of a breakthrough in endometriosis? | The Guardian
- How AI could help home caregivers | Quartz
- Suicide down 8.4% among teens and young adults | Reason
- There were 16M fewer stunted children in India in 2022 compared to 2012 | The TImes of India
- Home test that checks if an abortion has worked reduces follow-up surgery, study finds | The Guardian
- A mainstay of cancer treatment, radiation begins a fade-out | Stat News
Science & Tech:
- Many women struggle to breastfeed. Scientists are starting to ask why. | National Geographic
- How AI is helping airlines mitigate the climate impact of contrails | Google
- AI is building highly effective antibodies that humans can’t even imagine | Wired
Politics & Policy:
- Illinois Supreme Court upholds state’s assault-style weapons ban | CNN
- India’s tobacco industry regulations could shape public health guidelines around the globe | Think Global Health
- After Ohio, what other states are putting abortion on the ballot? | The New York Times
- Federal court overturns Mississippi’s lifetime voting ban | The Black Wall Street Times
- Massachusetts millionaire tax gets kids free school lunches | Business Insider
- The suburb that defied NIMBY | The Wall Street Journal
- How Montana performed a housing miracle | The Atlantic
Society & Culture:
- How 2023’s murder decline compares to other declines | Jeff-alytics
- Gen Zers are running for office and this new PAC wants to back them | NPR
- How 4 countries are preparing to bring stolen treasures home | The New York Times
- America’s cool inflation summer | Axios
- Mexico’s poverty rate declines from 50% to 43.5% in four years as remittances almost double | AP
- Summer of labor: Why unions win pay hikes and new clout | The Christian Science Monitor
- She’s got game: Women’s sports are booming | Axios
- Investors are increasingly optimistic about Brazil’s economy | The Economist
TPN Member originals 🧠
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- Ohio’s special election results | Isaac Saul
- Super superconductors aren’t needed for high-speed rail in America | James Pethokoukis
- Therapy culture has undermined our maturity | David Brooks
- Why Americans are so awful to one another | David Brooks
- Biden’s controversial new national monument | Isaac Saul
- Kamala Harris wrote a good book about crime | Matthew Yglesias
- Aristotle’s 10 rules for a good life | Arthur C. Brooks
- AI’s Pugwash moment | Anne-Marie Slaughter
- Sohrab Ahmari on post-liberalism | Yascha Mounk
- Knowledge creation and the human race | David Deutsch
- Beyond the hype: Self-driving cars shifting into high(er) gear | James Pethokoukis
- Japan can teach the world a better way to age | Bina Venkataraman
- The death of anti-nuclearism | Ted Nordhaus
- What the authoritarian playbook tells us about Netanyahu, Israel’s strongman | Ruth Ben-Ghiat
- What is the state of surveillance? | The Progress Network | September 26
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